Parallel & Proverbs
A weekly literary miscellany

Polish proverbs, at a glance

  • The candle that shines for others burns itself up.

    Świeca, co innym świeci, sama się spala.

    Literally: The candle, which to others shines, itself reflexive burns-up.

    Polish · Poland

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    • Latin — the Renaissance emblem motto: by serving others, I am consumed
    • Mandarin (Li Shangyin) — the wax torch turns to ash, the wax-tears finally dry
    • Persian Sufi — if the candle does not burn itself, how will it give light?
  • A guest in the house is God in the house.

    Gość w dom, Bóg w dom

    Goshch v dom, Boog v dom

    Literally: Guest into house, God into house

    Polish · Poland

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  • Not my circus, not my monkeys.

    Nie mój cyrk, nie moje małpy

    Nye mooy tsirk, nye mo-yeh maw-pih

    Polish · Poland

    Set beside

    • Chinese — if it doesn't concern you, hang it up high; detachment as vertical distance
    • Spanish — not my funeral; the stakes imagery shifts from comedy to mortality
  • Those who spend themselves in service to others are consumed by that very service.

    Świeca, co innym świeci, sama się spala.

    Literally: The candle that shines for others burns itself up.

    Polish · Poland

    Set beside

    • Mandarin (Li Shangyin, Tang dynasty) — the wax torch only stops weeping when it turns to ash; service as consuming love
    • Latin — by serving others, I am consumed; the Renaissance emblem motto of the burning candle as institutional ideal
    • Hindi — the candle that burns for others burns itself too; South Asian folk tradition
  • The truth jabs you where you can least look away.

    Prawda w oczy kole

    Literally: Truth pricks the eyes

    Polish · Poland

    Set beside

    • Russian — the same image, almost word for word
    • Latin (Terence) — truth begets hatred, the older Roman ancestor
    • English — the same observation, generalized into colorless pain