Parallel & Proverbs
A weekly literary miscellany

Hypocrisy is the gap between the face shown to the household and the face shown to the world. Proverbs catch it with affection more often than scorn — most cultures have noticed that humans cannot help being slightly different in front of their mothers than in front of their bosses.

The Mongolian gertee bar, gadaa khulgana — “a tiger at home, a mouse outside” — turns the observation upside down: the same person is one creature inside the door, another outside it. The image stays with you long after the proverb itself does.

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