Parallel & Proverbs
A weekly literary miscellany

Humility is the theme of staying right-sized. The Korean wonsung-ido namu-eseo tteoreojinda — “even monkeys fall from trees” — is one of the most generous formulations: even the experts, even those who do this for a living, get it wrong sometimes. Don’t be hard on yourself, and don’t be hard on others. Horace conceded the same thing about the greatest poet he knew: quandoque bonus dormitat Homerus, sometimes even good Homer drowses. Different languages choose different exemplars, but each picks the one figure you would least expect to slip.

A second family of humility proverbs listens instead of looking. Korean says bin sure-ga yoranhada, the empty cart is noisy. Hindi says adhjal gagrī chhalkat jāy, the half-filled pot splashes as it goes, and English that empty vessels make the most noise. Mandarin’s bàn píng cù, half a bottle of vinegar, is the most exact of them: not the full bottle, which is silent, nor the empty one, which has nothing to slosh, but the one in between, aimed at people who have read a little. In each of them the noise is the confession.

A third family is about the size of the view. Zhuangzi’s frog at the bottom of the well mistakes his cracked well for the world. The Hawaiian ʻaʻohe pau ka ʻike i ka hālau hoʻokahi — not all knowledge is taught in one school — refuses to let any single house of learning own what is worth knowing. Japanese prices the remedy: kiku wa ittoki no haji, kikanu wa isshō no haji, to ask is a moment’s shame, not to ask is a lifetime’s. Akan says it without the arithmetic: the one who asks questions doesn’t lose his way.

The last family treats standing itself as a loan. The Punjabi borrowed drum does not beat for long. The medieval Latin wheel of Fortune carries four riders — one climbing, one crowned, one falling, one in the dirt — and the hand on the crank is not theirs. Khmer times the turn to the monsoon: when the water rises, the fish eat the ants; when it recedes, the ants eat the fish.

№ 39 India

The Earth Bears the Digger

அகழ்வாரைத் தாங்கும் நிலம்போலத் தம்மை இகழ்வார்ப் பொறுத்தல் தலை.

akazhvāraith thāngum nilampōlath thammai igazhvārp poṟuttal talai

A Tamil couplet asks you to endure insult the way the earth endures the spade. Italian, Chinese, and Arabic cousins all make restraint a strength — but only the Tamil makes it the dignity of the thing being wounded.

Patience 1,270 wds 6 min

Proverbs about humility, at a glance

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