Parallel & Proverbs
A weekly literary miscellany

Proverbs about love almost never describe it. They describe what it does to perception. The Arabic al-qird fi ‘ayn ummih ghazaal — “in its mother’s eye, the monkey is a gazelle” — is the cleanest example: love is not really the subject. The mother’s eye is.

Across languages, the consistent observation is that love distorts. The disagreement is whether the distortion is a flaw, a gift, or simply a fact.

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