Parallel & Proverbs
A weekly literary miscellany

Caution is the theme of what looks fine usually isn’t. Almost every language has a proverb for it, and the choice of image gives away the worldview behind the warning.

The Khmer choose a forest with a snake: prey na mean pos, every jungle has a snake. The Russians choose a quiet whirlpool with devils in it, and they tend to point it at a person: the quietest one in the room is the one to watch. French moves the concealment onto clothing: l’habit ne fait pas le moine, the habit doesn’t make the monk, a proverb descended from a medieval Latin warning to abbots. What unites these proverbs is the observation. What separates them is the temperament.

A second strand of caution is about the mouth. Russian says slovo ne vorobey: vyletit — ne poymaesh’: a word is not a sparrow; once it flies out you will not catch it. Turkish says dilin kemiği yoktur, the tongue has no bone. Korean assigns the eavesdroppers by the hour — daytime words are heard by birds, nighttime words by mice. The Russian tailor’s rule, sem’ raz otmer’, odin raz otrezh’, measure seven times and cut once, applies the same arithmetic to the hand: many checks before one act that cannot be taken back.

The archive also keeps the proverbs that warn against caution itself. The French chat échaudé craint l’eau froide — the scalded cat fears even cold water — is caution learned too well. The Russian ne tak strashen chyort, kak yego malyuyut says the devil, looked at directly, is smaller than the icon painters made him. And the Dutch zachte heelmeesters maken stinkende wonden — soft healers make stinking wounds — finds the danger in too much gentleness. Caution, it turns out, is not one mood. It’s a family of them.

Proverbs about caution, at a glance

Where this theme shows up